Never abandon yourself and never give control to someone else over your life
One very important piece of advice I find needs repeating is to always follow your own heart and to keep thinking for yourself. If you’ve been shown that you have a Twin Flame connection with someone else, please make sure, while going through this journey, that you never abandon yourself and you never give control to someone else over your life and your heart. Don’t follow groups or individuals that claim to be able to know perfectly who your Twin Flame is (or isn’t) or what you are supposed to do with your connection.
Help should never be allowed to transform into control
As with anything in life, we must reach within ourselves to find out what we are being asked to learn when this type of connection shows up. We are all unique individuals, which means the experiences we encounter will always be unique as well. That is the beauty of God’s creation. While there is nothing wrong with seeking help when we are having difficulties, this help should never be allowed to transform into control, as that’s when we start to lose our own connection with our intuition and with God.
Let you heart guide the way
The more we let go of connecting with our own heart by letting others tell us exactly who we are supposed to be, or how we are supposed to live, the more we won’t be able to truly understand why certain connections have come our way and what we are supposed to learn from them. This brings me back to the Twin Flame Journey. As some of you might know, this is quite a rare connection. It can also be incredibly intense and confusing. This combination makes the idea of this experience very susceptible to being used by the wrong people.
Check in with yourself honestly and regularly
The best thing you can do is to put the focus on developing your own intuition, so you can make sure that you are moving in the right direction. For you to know whether you are really going through a Twin Flame journey, and if you are, whether you are on the right track with how you’ve dealt with it so far, ask yourself honestly and regularly: Am I truly growing and evolving, within and without, and coming closer to God/Krishna and to my authentic self by what I am learning from this situation?
Try to make sure you really feel that growth within your heart, and that you are uniting more and more with God in a joyful relationship as your real self. Dare to double check whether you are feeling this inside or whether you are mostly just using the ‘correct jargon’ or are performing the ‘right activities’ to satisfy the people around you. Are you, truthfully, listening to your own intuition or are you only taking on what someone else claims to be their intuition?
About The Author
Fabian Zwart
I write about my experience with being both on the Twin Flame Journey and on the path of Krishna consciousness. It can be difficult to figure out what your journey is trying to teach you; I hope to inspire other Twin Flames by sharing how stepping away from 'group thinking' and focusing solely on my own personal path in life has helped me greatly with finding deep inner peace and a true sense of fulfillment. *Always Be Yourself*
